Jay Herbert Gatlin

Jay Herbert Gatlin

November 2, 1942 – July 24, 2025

Jay Herbert Gatlin, 82, of Sanford, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on July 24, 2025, surrounded by his loving children and listening to the music of his favorite artist, Neil Diamond.

Born in Sedalia, Missouri, on November 2, 1942, Jay was the son of the late Frances and Herbert Gatlin. He proudly served four years in the United States Air Force, stationed in Bermuda. After his service, he continued his commitment to public service with the United States Weather Bureau, including a year-long assignment in the Arctic.

Jay eventually settled in Siler City, North Carolina, where he launched and ran a successful desktop publishing business before retiring. He was a dedicated member of the Siler City Rotary Club, serving as president and earning the honor of Rotarian of the Year.

An avid UNC Tar Heels fan, Jay rarely missed a March Madness tournament, always cheering passionately for his team. He found joy in the outdoors—tending to his yard, fishing in the lake, and simply being in nature. Jay had a deep love for animals, a quick sense of humor, and an endless curiosity for learning. More than anything, he cherished time with his family.

Jay is survived by his beloved wife, Diane; son Brian (Kris Risi); daughters Wendy and Kelli; stepson Gary (Debi); granddaughter Jayden; step-grandchildren Laina, Christina, Julie, Tyler, April, and Daniel; brother Carl and sister Linda. He was preceded in death by his parents and his stepdaughter Lenore.

Jay’s compassion, warmth, and wit touched everyone who knew him. He will be deeply missed.

A Memorial Graveside service will be held 11:00AM, Saturday, August 9, 2025 at Chatham Memorial Park in Siler City, NC.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Jay’s honor to AFRP of Greensboro to support animal rescue and care—an organization close to his heart.

Donate here: https://www.arfpnc.com

Smith & Buckner is assisting the Gatlin family.

Online condolences may be made at: www.smithbucknerfh.com